Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Your Relationship with your Cat

Do you want even more out of your relationship with your cat than you ever thought possible?

Well there are secret cat training techniques that are easy and fun for you and your cat ...if you know how.

Do you dream of cuddling on the couch and hearing the soft purrs of your loving cat...

..but instead you're a ball of stress because of your cat's behavior problem (like spraying all over your bed, or becoming angry at you, for example)?

Do you notice how some cat owners can have an astonishing relationship with their cat, while others... just put up with each other?

Do you wonder why some people can raise a friendly and sociable cat, while others end up with a scaredy cat, or an aggressive monster?

If you don't know how to have the well trained cat of your dreams, and know how to have a more rewarding relationship with each other.

You will soon!

How?

By simply using the right techniques and having the right mindset as a cat owner (it is a unique thing, you know, being a cat owner!).

For example, you know those cats you see on TV?

Well, you can use the exact same methods to train your cat that the pro trainers use when they're training cats for television and films.

Read more about that here.

It's an interesting method and you might be surprised at how it works.

Here's what it's NOT about:

1. Scolding your cat

2. Hitting your cat

3. Punishing your cat in any way

Here's what it IS about:

1. Playing with your cat and having fun!

2. Making your cat actually WANT to obey you!

3. Using the natural instincts ALL cats have to quickly and easily get your cat trained and acting like a little angel.

You can read more about it here.

The reason this is so effective is because it's based on the number one thing your cat craves ... YOUR LOVE.

Right now, almost 100% of your cat's behavior (both good and bad) is a result of getting your attention ...or trying to get your attention.

In fact, almost all "problem" behavior with cats can be traced back to one thing:

RECEIVING ATTENTION AT THE WRONG TIME

I'll give you an example:

First, let's agree that your cat craves your attention.

OK.

Have you ever had your cat jump onto somewhere they weren't allowed?

You most likely picked your cat up and said something like "No! Down!".

And then maybe you took your loving cat in your hands and placed your cat on the ground or on your lap and petted her.

Well, here's what's going on in your cat's head right now ...even if you're saying "No!" .. and scolding your cat.

your cat is thinking,

"WOW! EVERY TIME I jump up there, I get attention from my owner! This is great!

..I THINK I'LL JUMP UP THERE MORE OFTEN!"

..And the cycle continues.

But the good news is:

1. This problem is easy to fix

2. You're not alone. Most other cat owners make the same mistake :-)

For more advice on living with your cat, go to Cat Secrets Revealed


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